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All day long I talk to people who act as though they are on sale and I dont mean FOR sale, but ON sale. I can spot it anywhere because I used to be on sale. I was on sale in every area of my life career, relationships, financially, emotionally you name it and I was there at a deep discount.

So, I am going to share with you the 10 ways that you know you are on sale. If any of these apply to you, change your thinking, change your mind, and instead of thinking of yourself as a deal at Marshalls, consider yourself a limited edition from Vera Wang.

1.You give away your work for free.

2.You fail to put money away for yourself (just yourself) because you think working inside the home (taking care of kids) does not constitute a real job. Or, you think your salary is not significant enough for you to make financial decisions.

3.You blame your financial situation on the fact that you dont know what to do with your money.

4.You feel guilty about taking money, whether earned, inherited, or otherwise legally obtained.

5.You are in a relationship that is not fulfilling but you stay because you are either afraid of hurting the other person or you think maybe this is the best you can do.

6.You take a job because you were offered it, not because it pays you what you are worth and because you are passionate about the work.

7.You allow other people to decide your life.

8.You tolerate a hostile work or home environment.

9.You avoid confrontation at all costs, even if it results in your own suffering.

10.You constantly say yes to others and no to yourself.

Are You On Sale? is the title of Melani's latest book. To find out if your career is aligned with your body and mind go to http://www.coachmelani.typepad.com/. Melani Ward is a career coach and the founder of Career Fitness. She helps people create balance in their body, mind, and work. She works with yoga practitioners and athletes on career discovery and development, resume and interviewing strategies, setting and achieving goals, and uniting who they are with what they do.